Flashback Friday: a best friend. oh, and some plastic surgery discussion.
by Lisa on April 30, 2010 · 46 comments
Today was my last ACTUAL day of class! Just one more final and I am done for the semester. Wow, my first semester back at school. Definite post on that in the future 
Workin it Out
Just a quick recap of my workouts over Thursday & Friday. They were the same as Monday & Tuesday, but I will post again.
I’ve got about another week or so and I can’t wait! I want to try new classes this summer, mix up my weights, etc! Should be fun. I’m not sure I’m seeing any changes in my body from this workout–just goes to show ya, diet is 80-90% of the battle, and I haven’t changed my diet at all . Oh well, it’s been fun.
Lunch today was inspired by Julie…can you guess what I got? Jimmy John’s! MM MM I unwiched it up with an apple on the side! I love unwiches when it gets warmer outside–so cool and crisp.
Flashback Friday
Today’s flashback coincides with something big I’ve got going on this weekend! I’m hosting a Baby shower for my best friend Ashlee! We will be celebrating the birth of my Goddaughter…Emma.
I can’t wait for Sunday because I just can’t wait to see Ashlee’s face. She has wanted to be a mother for a long time now and it’s finally happening for her and I am so happy.
Ashlee is my oldest friend. We met in gymnastics when we were six years old. I was the blonde headed girl who always wore her hair in braids. She was the brunette who had a perm and wore glasses. I was shy, disciplined, and always did what I was told. Ashlee was loud, outgoing, and always seem to be causing trouble. We were polar opposites, but through our love of gymnastics we became friends.
She’s been there with me through thick and thin and she has been the ONE friend that I’ve had that I have told absolutely everything too…and she never judged, she just listened. It’s so important to have someone like that in their life.
So, as she is entering this new time in her like, I can’t wait for our friendship to grow and become more and more important and she begins to grow her family and I keep on living life.
We really loved the Backstreet Boys...can ya tell?
On our way to see N Sync (Im in the light blue, she's in the grey)
Ask Me Anything Questions
I’ve gotten a few more questions and I’m so happy to answer them.
When and why did you decided to get implants? Do you regret the decision at all or was it well worth it?
Ahhh I figure this would come up. A month or so ago I admitted that I have had a breast augmentation on my blog. I was pretty nervous to divulge this information actually. Mainly because some people can be so judgemental about this sort of thing, and unfortunately, the blog world is not exempt from that judgement. But, you guys responded wonderfully and I only got positive feedback saying you couldn’t tell and that they looked good (so hopefully you guys were being truthful 
).
Since it’s all out in the open now, I’d love to really talk about this because I have a few mixed feelings on the subject.
Before I had my breasts done, I was a big A or a small B when I weighed a little more. I had a little “boobage” on my own if you will.
I had always wanted bigger breasts. I even went as far as to take those pills to make your boobs bigger in highschool, and obviously those didn’t work. I never hated the way I look or was ashamed with my body…I just simply wanted bigger boobs.
I finally made the decision after much research to just do it. I got them done about 2 weeks after I graduated from college in May 2007. So, it’s been 3 years now! (wow time flies).
I got them done because I wanted bigger boobs. That’s really the only reason. I thought I would be better proportioned since I carry most of my weight in my lower half. I’m now a 34C so I didn’t go up to much in size and for that I am thankful. I think I have a great size–they still look natural on my frame I think.
The surgery wasn’t too painful. It felt like a big elephant was sitting on my chest and my armpits hurt pretty bad (my incision site).
The next question is…Do I regret it? No. Are there things I don’t like about having bigger boobs? Yes. I hate that I have to wear two sports bras when I run. I hate how heavy they feel sometimes—I still don’t feel used to having them after all this time. But, I am happy with the results and how they look.
Would I do it again? I’m not sure. That’s where I feel torn. I’m so happy with how they turned out..no regrets on that end. Sometimes when they start to bug me or when they start to hurt when I run I regret them for a little bit. They didn’t make me any happier and they didn’t make me automatically love myself…just like losing 10 lbs won’t cure anything. But, I think the surgeon did a fantastic job and they are apart of me now.
Anyways, that’s my two cents on my boobs. Hope you enjoyed …if you have ever other questions for me, please don’t hesitate to email me at Soonerliza@gmail.com, leave a comment, or click here and ask anonymously.
Over the weekend, I plan on doing a post about my Ab Routine for those of you who asked!
What do you think of plastic surgery? Would you ever get it yourself? My opinion is that people can do whatever they want to their bodies with no judgement from me. I think at a certain point people can go too far with surgery. I have no desire to get more plastic surgery. I’m done! I’m in a much better place with myself than I was 3-4 years ago and actually love myself now and appreciate what God gave me.
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You know my opinion, but I think you’re right not to have any regrets. You just enhanced your already gorgeous looks and you didn’t do it because you hated yourself, so there’s not a thing wrong with it in my opinion.
Of course people can take plastic surgery way too far, but that’s a whole other discussion, haha.
I can’t believe how clear that baby picture is. Technology is so crazy. I hope your shower is a huge hit
everyone should do whatever makes them happy with no regrets .. and toher people sohuldnt be offended by it because it has nothing to do with them or their life. thank you fo sharing… i loved reading this. and thank you for being honest and open too. xoxo <3
I wish I could get implants. I’m not even lying. I’m an A cup…barely. Sometimes I don’t even wear a bra and I’m 30 years old! There have been times when I’ve cried to my boyfriend about my flat chest and even though I know he likes me the way I am, I get worried when I see him look at a picture of a model with big boobs or if a girl in a restaurant walks by us with big boobs, I’ll ask if he would rather be with her. I know it’s my own insecurites, but it is what is.
I totally understand how you felt and commend you for doing what you wanted to do to make YOURSELF feel good. I think you looked beautiful before and just the same after. It’s how you feel in your own skin that matters, not what anyone else thinks.
Good for you for being so open and upfront! When it comes to plastic surgery, I tend to take the opinion that every individual has to make the decision that is best for them. I refuse to judge someone else’s decision because I don’t know what it’s like to be in that person’s shoes, to walk the path that she’s walked in life. So while I can say “I would or wouldn’t do this or that,” the truth is that I have no idea what I would or wouldn’t do in a different situation. So I try not to judge. To each their own!
i am flat like a boy. Don’t really care though…rather have 2 functioning legs…but cant get those either!
but i think its all a personal choice, so if u wanted to do it, i or no one else can really judge!
Well…I think you look beautiful before and after the surgery!
What an awesome pic of your god-daughter btw! 
Have fun at the shower!
I agree that anyone can do what they want to their body. I think doing one or two things with plastic surgery is fine. It’s the people who become addicted to it who scare me.
Personally, I would have a breast lift (I have Ds and they are pretty wonderful, but they need a lift) and have my eyes done a bit – I have heavy upper lids.
Yep, you got nice tatas. But I’m glad you got them not expecting to feel so much better, just because you wanted them. You were beautiful then and you are now too. How great that you realize that and don’t get down about it.
Also, being a 34C here as well…those suckers suck when doing high impact stuff!! I actually LOVED when I had no boobs during comp prep. LOL Grass is always greener, right?
I’m really torn on the plastic surgery thing, I actually have had surgery twice (both not by choice – I was a little kid so my parents made the decision) – once for a cut on my face and once to fix a broken nose. I get why people get surgery and I have no moral issue with it, I mean I would love to get my boobs lifted, after all this weight loss they are really down there, but I just couldn’t see DYING for it. It is surgery and there are serious risks, and stepping back and thinking “would I risk death for perkier boobs?” um probably not.
I find this especially strange for people who have kids, how do you explain that mommy is permanently injured or dead because she wanted bigger boobs/thinner thighs/etc? Sorry kids, Mommy’s not around cuz she wanted to look pretty?! I definitely couldn’t do it if I had kids.
I totally understand. It is a risk that you take. I guess I never really thought about it that way, because unfortunately…surgery is very routine to me. I’ve had 12 surgeries in my life so at this point, it’s just another day another procedure.
Thanks for expressing your opinion–it’s a valid one
I don’t have a strong opinion about it. If I had some health risks or I’d never had surgery before, I don’t think I’d want to start with something elective but since I know I respond okay to anesthesia, pain meds, etc, it wouldn’t scare me too much. I’d be open to having my nose done someday since it has been broken twice. It’s been smashed with a lacrosse ball and a knee (I was laughing really hard, lost my balance, and fell, crashing into my friend’s knee. She was sitting down).
Ouch! Nose injuries hurt SO bad. I’m sure your broken nose just gives it character and makes it even more unique
. Im not the biggest fan of my nose, but not willing to go through it all to change it.
You are too cute in that gymnastsics outfit!!
I went to see Backstreet Boys as well! haha!
BSB rocks! One time I got to be on TRL and I got the mic and requested a BSB video live on tv and said “I want to request BSB’s “The One” because BSB rocks and Nicks THE ONE for me”. haha dork huh?
but yes, we drove to kansas city with BSB posters all over the suburban with shoepolish on the car that said “honk if you love BSB” haha. good times!
I don’t really have a problem with plastic surgery.
I really love what you said about how it didn’t make you happier or automatically love yourself. I think as long as that isn’t the intention then there is nothing wrong with it. On the other hand, its really sad to think about people out there having potentially dangerous surgeries thinking that it will just automatically change how they feel about themselves.
Thank you for being so honest and open about the topic!
I don’t think plastic surgery is such a horrible thing- as long as you don’t go overboard! There is a fine line there though. I have seriously considered a breast reduction. I’m petite- barely 5’1″ yet I carry around 34DDs every day! Sometimes my back hurts, I can rarely wear strapless things, and I hate the way I look and feel when I run.
Yet, I don’t know if I would regret it, or not like the end result if I went through with it. I doubt I will ever end up getting it done, but I do fantasize about it and envy girls who can go around bra-less and wear button up shirts without gapping! I was a 34C in HS and it was my ideal size! As my body changed more as I got older, I didn’t notice the difference anywhere but my chest!
I guess I will have to come to terms with myself
Thank you for your honesty!
I’m not a huge fan of plastic surgery but when it comes to breasts, I’m all for it. For some reason my mind doesn’t register that as plastic surgery.. haha. As you know, I’ve considered getting breast implants but only because I’m tired of having such tiny boobs. For once it would be nice to actually fill out a shirt and have my body looking more balanced.
Hey girl – isn’t it so exciting when you get to be a part of something special like a dear friend’s first child. I was actually in the room when my oldest and dearest friend had her 2nd (totally not on purpose, ooh, fun fact for next Friday.).
Personally, I don’t think I’d ever get plastic surgery. I am only an A and sometimes I wish I was just a bit bigger so that clothes fit better, but I’m happy with being smaller chested. Like you said – no doubling up sports bras
I think it’s each person’s own decision. I have friends who’ve had boob jobs and other things done. That’s their choice entirely. I would never degrade someone or think less of them for it.
Not to sound weird…but now I want to see pictures of your boobies!
And that one picture of the two of you in front of the “BSB” car….I have a picture EXACTLY like that….except our car was decked out with NSync lovin 
Does that make us like, arch enemies? hahaha
Thanks for sharing your plastic surgery story! My mom got her boobs done a few years ago too, and she loves em! Also, I totally saw BSB and NSYNC in concert a few times, haha.
I admire your honesty! Thanks for sharing your story. I am also not very well-endowed in the boobs department, and I’ve often thought about getting surgery in the future, but it’s not really something I think about often. To me, there are a lot of advantages (which I’m sure you can relate to!): for one, cheaper sports bras if you can shop in the Nike/Adidas/Champion girls’ section! Also, as a runner, they definitely don’t get in the way!
I think that plastic surgery is fine if it helps someone to get over an insecurity. But to me, plastic surgery just for the sake of it makes no sense. Some of the procedures have high risks associated and I don’t think it makes much sense to put your health at stake just because your nose, boobs, ears, or whatever aren’t ‘perfect’.
You and your friend Ashlee look like an awesome pair – I hope you have a great time at the shower!
I tell myself that if I were younger I would get boobs not huge but a C cup. But I hated them being huge after having a baby. So hmmm, I don’t know. I don’t like HUGE fake boobs especially if they are not proportioned with the persons body. Bottom line if you want it do it no matter what the plastic surgery is. Right now I am happy with what god gave me.
If someone gave me the money, I’d totally get implants. I’m at a B right now, but when I’m at my goal weight they’re more like A’s. I’d love to be a C! I think that’s the perfect size. I see absolutely nothing wrong with getting plastic surgery, but what I don’t like is people like Heidi from the Hills who gets multiple procedures done to totally transform themselves. I think she crossed the line and then some. She was so much prettier before.
How exciting for your friend!! Do you mind me asking how long she tried for? Did she have some kind of fertility problem? Just asking b/c I like hearing about pregnancy success stories, they make me feel so much more hopeful!
Have a wonderful weekend!!
I have nothing against plastic surgery at all. I think some people can go overboard but I say if you can afford it and you have thought about it, do it.
I wouldn’t mind fixing my stretched out post baby belly
I totally need implants..I’m like an A-. Seriously. But I can’t even put contacts in my eyes without my body rejecting them. I can’t imagine how much rejection I’d go through if I had implants.
Good for you though. I’m glad you got something you wanted. I am all for plastic surgery if it makes someone feel better! Wish I could do it!
First off, congrats Godmama! She is already so beautiful so early on…you can just tell. Looks so peaceful, too
Good for you for being so up front and honest, and thank you for that openness. I love when bloggers decide to talk about topics that they are nervous posting about (wow, the grammar of that sentence sucked major balls). I think it sets a great example for everyone in the blog world. If we are passionate about something, and/or it is a big part of our lives, then we should be able to talk about it — judgement-free.
As for me, I would love surgery….but I would love breast REDUCTION. I’m a 30C, sometimes D. I have a pretty narrow back (used to be a 28/29 and had to get bras altered because even the last clasp was too loose!) and smallish frame….but moreover, I am CRAZY-active when it comes to cardio. I do some form of cardio every day for at least 30 mins, which means a LOT of bounceage. And it gets SO uncomfortable. Not to mention the fact that I cannot wear some of the crazy-cute workout gear out there because it does not hold me in. Down to a B would be fantastic. So basically, if we could’ve switched and had a boob transfusion, that would have been FAB
Thanks for sharing this. If plastic surgery were free, I’m sure I would get it too. And its something I might consider at some point in my life when/if I have more money. But one of the most important points you made is that is does not make you happier or automatically love yourself. I think a lot of people get surgery with unrealistic expectations, and then end up disappointed.
I think its a personal decision, and if people are emotionally stable then I totally support the choice to have cosmetic surgery. And I don’t think anyone has a right to judge them for it. I also am small chested- I used to be really ashamed of it when I was 12 and all the other girls started growing boobs and I didn’t, so I wore push up bras and told myself I would get fake ones one day. Obviously I’ve changed a lot since then…and I don’t think I would ever get a breast augmentation because I’ve become more comfortable with my flat chest and I kind of like that I can run without having to worry about that kind of pain (I have enough to worry about with the pain in my knees and shins!). Having said that, there are other surgeries I would consider. Thanks for being so open and honest.
Lisa I admire your honesty so much. I also love that Def Leppard shirt.
You and your friend are just gorgeous.
I have been working on a post about plastic surgery, specifically implants, for over a year. Yes OVER a year. Crazy right! It’s always been a struggle for me but ultimately I always decide against it for many reasons that I’ll someday post. I’ve never posted it b/c I have quite few close friends and relatives who have chosen to get plastic surgery and I don’t want to seem insensitive. I don’t judge people who choose to have it done. I *would like* to get them myself but I don’t want to take the risk and my husband is very much against implants. Most importantly to me something inside of me wants to keep fighting to accept the genetic lottery card I drew.
Again I appreciate your honesty. It’s refreshing.
Have so much fun at your baby shower! It’s amazing to have friends like that, they are such an important part of life.
I love your “boob discussion” – I have no problem with them. I would like bigger boobs too, but I’m too much of a wuss…hah.
I’m so glad I read this post! I’ve been toying with the idea for some time and I’m on the fence. I don’t think I’ll end up doing it mostly because of exercise. I already have lower back problems with A’s…I can’t imagine with more on top what I would feel like. I also play hockey and I heard you can’t play for 6-8 weeks after surgery! That’s a deterrent right there. I’m just not sure…and I wouldn’t do it unless I was 100% sure. But I’m all for it conceptually!
First off, I so loved the pics of you and your best friend. You guys remind me SO MUCH of my best friend and me. We are like two peas in a pod, but boy do I miss her (she’s in CA and I’m in NC). I love seeing the ultrasound pics and congrats to her on becoming a mommy!!!
Secondly, I didn’t realize you’d had breast implants, but I applaud you for being courageous enough to put it out there. Clearly you did a lot of research and you had/have a good head on your shoulders when it came to making the decision. I can’t say I’m against plastic surgery, because I’ve had it done myself! Only I’m not brave enough to put it out there.. maybe one day? Kudos to you – I think you look fantastic and very well-proportioned. I never would’ve known!
I love how you described your friendship with Ashlee! Friendships like that are forever and so special. And I love your confidence in yourself. Never lose that!
Ashlee sounds like a great friend- congrats for her baby!!
I like that you’re open + honest about the plastic surgery. Personally, I’d never do it but I have nothing against others who get it done! I DO, however, have something against liposuction. And that’s all I’ll say about that
Good for you being so open about it!! I love how straight up you are too about why. You are really lucky you had a good experience, so I totally get your feelings because of that. Personally, I could never willingly undergo surgery. But that’s based more on my own irrational fears
A good friend of mine had breast augmentation because of a deformity, and it was also a great experience for her. For that reason, I’ve never been able to make negative judgement on implants. I’m a purist though – I don’t even have tattoos!
I totally know what you mean about the fear of surgery. I’ve been having surgery unfortunately since I was about 2 years old so they aren’t something scary to me…not sure if that’s a good or a bad thing though! Thanks for the support and nonjudgement! I love people like you
Hope you enjoyed your first day of funployment!
Oh, go you for posting on such a personal subject! When I was younger I wanted HUGE breasts, and I don’t even know why. After all was said and done, I ended up with a pretty small size, but I couldn’t be happier and more comfortable with my body. I like you “un-sandwich’ method and also, for some reason I always catch your posts that include photos of when you were little. You were so adorble then (as well as now). Have a great weekend!
I went to N*Sync at that age too! My fiance has asked me if I would ever want a BA. I may want them “lifted” since I had a child. But, if I were to get plastic surgery, there are other areas of my body I may concentrate on….
Your response to the question is SUCH a breath of fresh air. I know i’m reading this post late, but i’m SO glad i came across it! I’m an Asian girl with small boobs and I’ve seriously debated whether or not to get BA done. I haven’t done it yet, but primarily because i’m afraid i would regret it. I’ve heard that you’ll need to have them redone every 10 years and that wasn’t something i was prepared for…financially and psychologically. You look FANTASTIC and i’m so so so glad that your surgery went so well. With plastic surgery, so many things can go wrong, but i’m relaly happy that your experience was so great.
Thank you so much for sharing and for being so honest. It’s hard to find someone so upfront about these things, especially making it public too. Thank you!!!!
I’m glad you did a roundup of your previous posts because I don’t know that I’d ever catch this one.
No judgment whatsoever on the boob job…I’ve thought about it many times myself to make *me* happy
Good for you girl to do what YOU want!
Loves it!
awww LOVE this post Lis! I think they look wonderful and I always tell J that I want one a boob “fix” after we have kids
Also, I love all the old photos! The photo I took of you and Ash walking up to J’s show is one of my all time favorite photos of yall. Random I know but I just love it 
PS> Everytime I see that NSync photo I can’t help but laugh my little head off. Apparently Danielle and Kiwi were the only ones who got the “Rolled Bangs aren’t cool” memo
And I would like to note that I kept that shirt through high school because the numbers were glow in the dark… haha! lame 
Love you lots!!! Hope classes are going well!
Congrats to your friend! I’m sure Emma is almost 1 now. I completely agree with your take on plastic surgery. As long as they do the research and are confident in the surgeon, they can do what they want.
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