How I learned to say “Im a Runner”

by Lisa on May 5, 2011 · 15 comments

It’s Thursday!! I’ve had a great morning full of intervals on a treadmill and a lovely cup of tea.

I’m extremely busy today so please enjoy this guest post from another Lisa in the blogworld. I can really relate to this post. In late winter of 2010, I never would’ve believed that I would have ran two marathons by May 1st, 2011.  I had a hard time running 2 miles at a time in 2010. It can be done!

Enjoy Lisa’s guest post!

If I were to look back two years ago, I never would have thought these words would come out of my mouth: “I am a runner”.

(This is Lisa from I’m an Okie…quick side note…doesn’t she look like Anne Hathaway? I think it’s that big beautiful smile!)

Back in high school, I was always one of the slowest runners in gym class. I’d huff and puff with asthma and aching shin splints as I finally finished running (and walking, though that was breaking the P.E. rules), a mile. It made me feel embarrassed, unathletic, and unfit, and this kept me from running, or even trying many sports at all, throughout high school and college.

Two years ago though, something changed. I was in my last semester of grad school, and was in the midst of student teaching. Every day I got home exhausted, in need of some sort of revival. I don’t know what inspired me, but I dug out an old pair of sneakers, put on shorts and a t-shirt, and ran down the road.

I ran for a minute or two, then started that old huffing and puffing again. But this time, I didn’t quit. There weren’t any gym teachers hollering at me to keep running, or classmates who made me feel inferior. It was just me.

I spent the next few days researching beginner runner plans, and found Jeff Galloway’s beginner’s training plan. It made sense to start by walking three days a week. It made sense to build up the running slowly, walking when necessary. And it made sense to go slowly, at my own speed, because running was going to be all mine.

After that first year of running, I registered for my first 5k, and then another, and loved both of them. The exhilaration of being around other runners made me feel excited about my new passion, and I loved having a goal to work towards.

How do I stay confident and motivated with running? After reading many blogs, books, and running magazines, I have four concepts that keep me going:

1. Walk breaks are okay. A lot of people think that you haven’t run unless you run for a full stretch of time. This just isn’t true. Many runners incorporate walk breaks into their runs to help them run farther and faster. And we’re all different. Follow what you body feels comfortable with.

2. I am a runner, not a jogger. In one book I read, there was a section on how many people (women, especially) will say that they jog, not run, because they think their speed is too slow to be considered running. This isn’t true either. It’s all about having the confidence to say that you are running. If you’re not walking, you’re running. (Besides, jogging’s something people did in the 80′s.)

3. Follow a training plan. A lot of people who want to give running a try throw on old sneakers and run as fast as they can until they’re worn out. Unfortunately, this is an easy way to get discouraged, and to possibly quit running altogether. Do a search online for a beginner’s running plan, and build up your endurance slowly, as you want to.

4. Slow and steady wins the race. This is my mantra. I love to run, but I would not love it if I was always trying to run at a specific pace, or if I tried to keep up with other runners. I like to go at a pace that allows me to talk but not sing, and keeps my heart and body working hard but without strain. I am the tortoise. Don’t feel pressured to be the hare.

I’m currently training for my first half marathon (yikes!). It’s exciting to have such a big goal in mind, and to build up my endurance and strength bit by bit, week by week. I feel proud and confident that I call finally say, “I am a runner”.

Thanks so much to Lisa for giving me this opportunity. I’ve been reading her blog for almost a year, and love her positive attitude and fun posts.

A note: My writing is based on my own research, experiences, and reflections. If you have a medical question or concern related to a fitness program, please contact your physician.

 

Thanks Lisa!

Have you ever done something that you never thought you’d be able to do??

 

{ 14 comments… read them below or add one }

Allie May 5, 2011 at 8:37 am

You do look like Anne Hathaway!
I LOVED this guest post and how honest/informational it is :)
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Holly @ The Runny Egg May 5, 2011 at 8:52 am

I definitely see some Anne Hathaway in you!

Thank you for the runner/jogger talk — I am guilty of calling myself a jogger because I don’t think I’m very fast but I’m getting better!
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Nikki May 5, 2011 at 8:59 am

Definitely a great guest post! So many of us can relate to it. Thank’s Lisa!

Hmm, there is a lot in life recently that I never thought I would do. I make it a point to try to do things that challenge myself or that I am scared/intimidated to do. Salsa dancing, running, etc. Running I’ve been doing for a bit, but took some time off last year. I’ve been back into like crazy lately. I love what Lisa said about running being all hers. It needs to be personal. I get asked how I stay motivated to run at all and on top of that to run for longer distances. I make it personal. I run to what my body feels and not to a distance or time in my head. If I start running and I’m tired, I will make it short. If I feel great, I keep going. Your body will love you and you won’t get burnt out.

Oops, long post. I got going on it! Sorry! :) Have a great day!
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Grace May 5, 2011 at 10:58 am

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing Lisa! I struggle so much with calling myself a runner becasue I have a lot of negetive feelings about my running. I feel like I run really slow and I’ve been doing Jeff Galloways method so I don’t kill myself while running and I’m always wondering what people think when they see me walking…I am trying really hard to let those feelings go especially since his method is hopefully going to allow me to finish the Disney marathon 2012! I ran the Disney Princess Half Marathon in February and realized I was getting caught up in my pace and just exhausting myself and that is when I made the decision to try to stop comparing myself to others and start actually liking running and not dreading it:) Thank you again for sharing! and good luck on your first half marathon! You’re going to rock it!
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Caree @ Fit-Mama May 5, 2011 at 11:24 am

Hi Lisa!!! Love your blog post!!! Makes me feel good that I am not a fast runner but I am a runner! :) love it! :

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Melissa May 5, 2011 at 11:33 am

Hi Lisa! I love this! It’s so cool to me that ANYONE can be a runner if they put their mind to it!

I’ve run 2 half marathons in the past year, and I NEVER would have thought I could do that! I also moved to a different state away from my family which is something I didn’t think I could do on my own. But here I am! :)

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Clare @ Fitting It All IN May 5, 2011 at 11:41 am

Congratulations! I, too, NEVER thought I could be a runner. I hated it and got tired so quickly. But once I put my mind to it and realized I could run at my own pace, I started to love it and have even run a marathon!!
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Becca May 5, 2011 at 11:58 am

LOVE this… I know first hand how starting out too hard and too fast just makes you hate running lol

I think you know what I never thought I could do… and honestly, still feels weird to say “I’m a figure competitor” :)
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Sable May 5, 2011 at 12:51 pm

This reminds me sooo much of my post from the other day! haha! I never thought I’d call myself a lifter, a bodybuilder, or a nursing student. Never. Until I just simply started lifting weights and registered for classes. Funny how it’s that simple :)
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Steph @ Live Laugh Love May 5, 2011 at 2:45 pm

Lisa, this is so inspiring! I just started the C25K and I love how the program builds up over the whole program, it is less overwhelming this way. I am still sometimes pessimistic about my running, but it gets better and better every week :)

And I agree with Lisa, you do look like Anne Hathaway!
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Mel May 5, 2011 at 3:09 pm

I realllly reallly like this post! I’ve always been the girl who could dance, elliptical, etc for hours – but would totally fall apart after a few minutes of running! To be honest, I’m still sort of there – working slowly to conquer one mile at a time with my ankles hurting and shin splints and asthma, always embarrassed wondering “why is it so hard for me?!”

Hearing your input – and everyone’s comments – made me realize it’s hard on everyone and that it is possible. I’m definitely going to take your advice on sticking to a training plan and going at my own pace. Thank youu.
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Lisa Fine May 5, 2011 at 4:10 pm

Thanks again to Lisa for setting up this guest post. I love reading “I’m an Okie”!

And thanks for all of the compliments. You’re all so sweet. I was told once, a few years ago, that I look like Anne Hathaway. :)
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jobo May 5, 2011 at 9:22 pm

Great post! I LOVE that you can say you are a runner. it has taken me awhile to say that too. but honestly, it’s true. Embrace it, right?
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Heather @ kissmybroccoli May 7, 2011 at 7:41 am

Great post Lisa! I love the part about jogging vs. running. I have been so guilty of downplaying running because of my speed/endurance/experience in the past, but over the last few weeks I’ve noticed my body craving more and my speed and endurance has improved so much!

If you’re not walking, you’re running. (Besides, jogging’s something people did in the 80′s.) <- Love it!
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