Why did I choose Nursing as a profession?
A reader recently sent me this question in an email. She is debating between becoming a nurse or a doctor and wanted to know my reasoning for choosing nursing.
She feels like she should push herself hard as she knows that she is capable of being a doctor…but that nursing calls to her because it might allow for more freedom. She worries that she might be selling herself short by becoming a nurse.
Instead of emailing her response, I’d figure I’d make this into a post.
Nurse Jackie is the reason I decided to become a nurse.
Obviously I am kidding.
I grew up wanting to do something in the medical field. It started out that I wanted to be a veterinarian (which I would call a vegetarian…little Lisa was confused). I think I just wanted to play with animals all day if I am being honest.
I eventually started doing gymnastics and found myself at the doctors office all the time. I was an injury waiting to happen. I became close with my orthopedic surgeon and he let me shadow him for a week. I was able to see patients with him, go into surgeries, and understand a little more how it worked. I loved it.
I got into high school and realized that I was horrible at math and science classes. My dream of going into the medical field was shattered because I thought I wasn’t smart enough in those areas. I was delegated to writing and reading and pursued a Communications degree in college.
After three years working in the real world, I realized I wanted more. The medical field was still calling my name. I started doing pre-requisites that would be needed for any medical field while I decided what area I was interested in.
I thought of being a doctor, an occupational therapist, a physical therapist, a physicians assistant, a nurse, a dental hygienist.
I ruled out all of them and settled on Nursing.
I absolutely love talking to people. I love communication (it was my degree after all). When you are taking a patients history, you are essentially getting to know them. You are making them feel at ease and comfortable with being in the hospital or clinic. You are becoming their friend.
Helping people is a huge passion of mine. I can pursue that passion every single day with nursing. Nurses are the ones that bridge communication between patients and their doctors. They explain and interpret things to the patients family, they are the advocate for the patient when he/she can’t be that person for themselves, and they are the ones the patient bonds with during what is often the most difficult time in a person’s life (by the way, a lot of this was said in Elise’s post about nursing. She explained what I thought perfectly so I used some of her words).
Nurses see people in their most vulnerable positions. We are there everyday to help ease that stress.
I love that I can be all of those things for my patients, without all the stress of being a doctor. I don’t want the responsibility that being a doctor brings. I don’t want to be the one making the decisions regarding a diagnosis or treatment. Someday I do want to become a Nurse Practitioner so I will have some of those responsibilities in the future. However, I love that I will have the training to know how to care for the patient as well.
I want to be the one who is there for the patient. Taking care of them. Easing their stress. Making their stay just as comfortable as I can.
What do you do for a living? What led you to make that decision regarding your career?
































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Awesome post! I love hearing why people choose to go on the career paths they are in!
I am a teacher. I’ve always wanted to be a teacher (well except for when I thought I wanted to be a psychologist), but I was afraid that it wouldn’t be enough money. I’m so glad I went with my gut. I love working with kids and seeing them learn something new. It’s amazing!
What grade do you teach??
I totally understand why you chose nursing, and I’m sure you’ll be a fantastic one!
My career is…well, I’m a life coach but I also have a “real” job and I’m considering becoming a certified personal trainer and/or getting a second Bachelor’s in Health and Wellness or Community/Public Health. My original degree was in studio art, which has nothing to do with anything I’m really interested in now!
I don’t exactly know what my career will be, but I, too, love talking to people, and I really just want to help people with their overall health: their mental well-being, emotional well-being, their eating habits, their fitness.
I would love to be a life coach as well. It kind of encompasses it all!
And you will make an INCREDIBLE nurse!
I am a music teacher. I realized in high school that I loved teaching the piano students I had. I accompanied the local high school choir for a few concerts and asked the director if I could shadow her for a day. I realized that music was something that I loved and I was capable of sharing that love with others. The more I learned and taught the more I knew it was the job for me.
Both of my brothers are extremely musically talented and I’ve always been jealous of that.
Oh man this makes me want to write a post about why I decided to go to grad school for occupational therapy! This was so well written and I can tell that it is something you really love! Btw, I am absolutely loving reading your blog
Thank you so much! Your blog is in my reader–now if i could ever find time to read it
Aw, thank you!
I’m still in college but I did have that crossroads moment where I knew that my major wasn’t right for me and I ultimately decided to go down another avenue. As an ad/pr major I am beyond happy. I found my true passion. You’re lucky to have found something that you so obviously care about. Good luck with everything!
I think it’s amazing and really inspiring that you want to help people so badly that you are making it your career
I’m a nurse practitioner and LOVE what I do. It’s the best of both worlds. We get the same training and responsibilities as docs without the hassles of medical school, residency, and crazy schedules. Great post
Glad to hear you love it! I have only been in nursing school for about a month, but that’s my goal eventually.
You are going to make a fantastic nurse!! Have you given any thought to what type of nursing your might be interested in?
honestly, I am not sure yet. I start rotations in July so hopefully I will find out more then.
It’s a shame that a nurse in today’s world hardly has time to talk with patients. I love what you wrote but it’s unfortunate that the pressures of hospital floor nursing take away so much from the profession. Appreciate the time that you have left in school!
That’s sad to hear. I start rotations first week of July and I can’t wait to see what it’s really like.
I didn’t mean to be a downer! I wish that more nurses would ban together so we can bring down unsafe patient ratios and do the job we went to school for! Nursing is incredibly rewarding even on the bad days
I work in a privately owned hospital and our Physicians/Surgeons care about the patients. We have a 3 to 1 nurse to patient ratio. Heaven for a nurse:)
I just graduated with my degree in Communication Studies, but I’m still figuring out a career path (AKA I have yet to find a job). I’d love to do something with writing, so, we’ll see…
gosh, Lisa.. this is so good for me to hear.
I never wanted to be a nurse, but I ended up working with the nurses at my college as my work study job. I loved everything they did; I found it interesting; I wanted to help people, too.
I always considered becoming a nurse completely out of the question because I am AWFUL at math and science (my degree was Communications and Spanish
). Hearing your story and how you can relate really makes me rethink things.
Plus, it would totally make my Aunt happy. She served as Chief Nurse of the Red Cross for several years before retiring just a few years ago.
You’re awesome. As always.
I failed intermediate algebra in college. I got a C in chem in highschool. I dropped chem the first time around in college. Once I put my mind to it, I was fine! I made a’s in my science classes and math isnt that heavy. mainly just conversions and simple math. you can do it!
last year i debated nurse or doctor. i had been going to a university for 2 years right out of high school and just found out i wasn’t accepted into the nursing program. i was still waiting to hear from another school’s program.
i was basically crushed and reevaluating my life. i thought about staying at my university, changing my major to biomedical sciences, and going on to med school.
i went to barnes and noble. i found a book full of quotes from nurses. sure enough, there was a section on nurse vs doctor. one quote still sticks with me a year later. a guy said something along the lines of how nurses deal with people and doctors deal with diseases. and i was set. a few weeks later, i found out that i got accepted into the other school’s program.
i work now as a nurses aide in a hospital and i’m graduating in december. this job has shown me that nursing is the career for me. it warms my heart when a 90 year old man squeezes my hand and thanks me. this job is teaching me beside manners which i think is a very important thing to have in nursing.
i saw a code blue last week. all the nurses and respiratory therapists were working on the patient, while 4 doctors stood in the hallway and watched. nurses get down and dirty. nurses clean up crap and hold your hair up while you puke. nurses get to know patients and their families. nurses know your name. nurses see you at your worst. and nurses say “bye and don’t come back” at discharge.
sorry, that was kind of long and ranty haha. maybe i should get a blog.
Love it!! The reasons you stated are why I want to be a nurse!
I admire your ambitions! I really want to help people, too, and have been considering OT, speech therapy, nursing, social work, and nutrition. But I am very undecided. It is nice to hear your perspective and I am excited to hear about how everything goes. How long will nursing school take?
I am in an accelerated program for students who already have a Bachelors in another field–it is 14 months! I will be done in august 2012.
I love hearing why people chose the profession they are in. Me, well I just happened upon a Medical Technology program and 30 years later I am Laboratory Manager. It is all about the patient:)
I am a nicu nurse at a childrens hospital. I absolutely love my job and leave work everyday smiling when I think about how lucky I am to have a job that I love. Some days I don’t want to leave!! I just love working with families and doing teaching. You have picked a great career!!!!
love hearing happy stories like this! Thanks for commenting!
i love hearing happy storied like this too! it is definitely daunting when you hear all the horror stories about nursing so it’s good to know that there are some people who do love what they are doing!
seriously–i sometimes get overwhelmed by all the daunting nursing stories!
Both of my aunts on my dad’s side of the family became nurses- and your explanation is the exact same one they give. It’s a wonderful thing.
Great post! As a fellow nurse I get this question quite often. Why didn’t I go to medical school, why don’t I want to be a doctor. At first it offended me since I love being a nurse and have no desire to be a doctor and have those responsibilies, but then I realized that people were merely curious. I love my connection with my patients and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
Before I applied to nursing school I wanted to be an interior designer, talk about a complete 180!
For a long time I considered medical school. But as much as I was attracted to it, I also realize that I would be in my post-mid-30s before I was actually able to start my career and that I partially wanted to be involved in it for the prestige that comes with being a doctor. I also realized in the last 24 months (the amount of time I’ve spent in university), that I was not prepared to give up my life for a career I only sort of wanted. But the biggest influence for me to not become a doctor was because I feel like I’ll have a bigger impact on the lives of my clients as a rec therapist.
I love reading about people’s dreams and goals and more importantly how they found the path towards those dreams. I’m so glad you didn’t give up on your dream of being in the medical profession just because of some math and science classes. More importantly, you found something that bridged the gap between all of those passions – nursing.
Immediately after college I started out at a magazine in Chicago and loved the job. Unfortunately the magazine folded. Public relations was a natural step for me, and I’ve learned to love what I do. The type of public relations I was doing really wasn’t fulfilling me and I’m lucky enough to work at a place that cared enough to make a change for me. Starting in July, I’ll be working on clients that interest me a bit more, and I’m really excited!! Still, nothing excites me more than writing and working in the publishing industry will remain my dream as long as I’m living in NYC
I worry every day that I’m selling myself short. Everyone though I’d go on to be a doctor or a lawyer something big time and honestly? That’s just not me. I am trying to get a job at Lululemon and work there possibly start personal training as well. That is what I’m truly passionate about. It’s just scaring me that I am OK with all of this that I am wiling to pass on being a PT assistant or trying to get into law school… I mean shouldn’t we want to be those lofty professions? BTW I flunked chem my first time through and was forced to drop it too petrified to go back to it!
If I ever find myself in the hospital (knock on wood!) I hope you are my nurse! Amazing, thoughtful post, Lisa. You’re so lucky to know exactly what it is you’re meant to do!
You definitely will make a great nurse! Your passion for it and your friendliness are perfect for the job.
I make maps for a living. Honestly, I started as a music major, decided to change and took a semester to fill blocks while I decided to what. Interior design was on the list. BUT while filling my geography block, the teacher presented the topic in such a way and with such passion that I was intrigued. I met with her later and decided to change. She later became my advison and I LOVED every.single.one of my classes. To this day, I love what I do.
It pays to follow your gut and your passion.
Great post. Nurses work so hard and work such long hours. Definitely one of the most underappreciated professions. You’ll be a great nurse!
I love it when people go after their passion and true calling. I am still so happy or you Lisa!
You already know this, currently production mnager… soon to be.. funemployed!
I love your reasons for going into nursing and it’s all so true!
I originally started college as a kinesiology major. I can’t pass a test to save my life so I left the hell hole of UNLV and went to the Art Institute. I have an art degree in Interior Design. The whole time I went to school I kept my old job working for an electrical contractor. Well, 12 years later I am still here! I now work for our renewable energy division doing solar panel work!
aww..thanks for the mention girly. this post touched my heart because i can relate so much to what you say. nursing is such a giving profession. i hate hate hate that it is seen as the alternative to being an MD though. to me, thats like asking a teacher why she didnt decide to be an astronaut. they are so different and once you are in the hospital youll see how vital nurses are in a patient’s recovery. MDs are obviously critical too, but the personal touch is often what makes the difference…we motivate, we inspire, and we are who they remember when they are discharged happy and healthy.
I was really pumped to hear that you were doing an accelerated nursing program! I am about to submit my application to an accelerated BSN to MSN program (2 years total) as well as podiatry school. I can’t decide which field would be better for me yet, but due to flexibility, I am really leaning towards nursing!
Current occupation: Mom
What led me here?: A really good time with my husband. Haha.
Previous occupations: Research Associate
What led me here?: My passion for research…and laboratory fun. Until the company turned production on me, and I hated that! I became just a number.
why didn’t you choose pharmacy?
oh man. all of the chemistry and knowing a million medications. That’s why
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I feel like we might be life twins : ) I graduated with my BA in Communications, but now five years after graduating I am going back to school for nursing. I crammed all my pre-reqs in this year and hope to be accepted to an accelerated nursing program here in Texas for a start date of Jan. 2012. Best of luck to you in nursing – and you couldn’t have said it better about nursing being the bridges. I strongly feel that our communication degrees will help us be strong nurses.
i am also in an accelerated program for previous degree holders and will be done aug 2012 too
it’s SUPER intense and i am feeling completely incompetent most days but last week during clinicals my first patient lit up every time i came in her room and i knew i was helping her by just paying attention to her and treating her with dignity and kindness and it confirmed how much i want to be a super nurse someday!
aw so fun that we are in this together!
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